It was late in December 2019 when the dreaded covid-19 virus or corona virus took the world into its pandemic dominion. The world is severely crippled and every sector has its shares of depreciation, fluctuations, and bankruptcy. Corona virus may not have stopped all businesses from ceasing, but it put a major damper to all major facilities, to the people, and to the world’s economy.
Even all crowded places has become deserted. People are force to either stay at home or work at home. Social distancing and other preventive measures that were once a choice became mandatory and failure to do so could land a person in jail. We are now experiencing a different norm, and it is even said that it will be the new norm after this. Mommy duties has become more chaotic and tedious since all the family members are at home.
Since the covid outbreak, many private occasions, public gatherings and national holidays has been suspended, and cancelled which are likely to be move until next year or never at all. This dilemma has cause a lot of health fear which outweighs greater than celebrating the birthdays, or national holidays such as Mother’s Day.
However, just because we are in the middle of this health crisis doesn’t mean we can’t celebrate the Mother’s Day occasion like the usual. Since all department stores are closed, it’s likely that you wouldn’t have a present for your mom. It’s understandable, however, there are alternatives that can be done and given. Luckily, delivery service has been handy for most of us who stays at our homes. Frontliners like them has been helpful, and they are highly appreciated these days including our nurses, doctors, soldiers and other local government units.
Gifts For The Moms This Mother’s Day
There are realizations that have been meaningful this covid crisis. Going back to the basics and the essence of being alive is already a gift from the almighty. What more if your mom is safe and healthy during these trials. But putting it into a list, these are simple alternative gifts you could give to your mom this Quarantine Mother’s Day.
A Packed Food from A Delivery/Drive-Thru Service.
I know this may sound boring or for some, it might have been a regular day, but this applies to those families who are in a tight budget or cannot go out to spend the occasion at a diner or fancy restaurant. We all know that if there is the busiest person during this crisis aside from the frontliners, it would be our moms or your wives. And giving them the food they are craving is beyond deserving. It doesn’t hurt to cut a little budget for this occasion, what matter is that you treasure her importance in these times.
Cook an Edible Arrangements.
This might be an advantage for the cooks and chefs at heart. With a lot of cooking videos, and tutorials circulating in the social media during this covid pandemic, cooking or baking an edible arrangements with the use of chocolates and other creative ingredients are not just a nice gift for the moms and wives. It also relieves you from stress and anxieties brought by staying at home, and unable to do anything if you are not an introvert type.
A Flower from Your Garden.
Wouldn’t it be nice seeing your plants bloom? But wouldn’t it be nicer, if you give these flowers to the most important woman in your life? The first flower in your garden would be great, however, if you don’t have a garden, you could stroll down in your village and search for any decent looking flowers. Giving it to your mom or wife when she wakes up, in addition to a hot coffee and a little note of greeting is a bliss for them.
A Greeting Note from Your Children.
Teaching our children in celebrating Mother’s Day with a greeting card is so classic but memorable. Tell your children to write a note for their mom the day before Mother’s Day. This way, you don’t only teach your children to be empathetic, but you are teaching them (especially your sons) the importance of a woman and how they should be treated and respected. You are setting an example for your children.
However, with the use of technology, there have been meaningful alternative ways. Personalization like E-card has become more creative. Tell your children to text their moms or create a simple artwork from your mobile app and send it on Mother’s Day. Create a TikTok greeting, a Snapchat video, a slideshow or an IG/Facebook post and tagged them in. Add it with a personal message, and it will be all worth it.
Arrange a Netflix Date.
With the scarcity of resources due to the covid pandemic, a Netflix date is more convenient than a dinner date. Don’t get me wrong, dinner date has always been one of the most worth noting ways in occasions such as Mother’s Day.
However, this year is incomparable to the previous years, we are facing an invisible enemy. We are stuck at our homes. We can’t just easily buy anything even luxuries regardless if you have all the money in the bank. Set up your room or set up the porch with your flat screen television. You should have known beforehand the movies that your mom or wife enjoyed watching. If you don’t like the movie, at least sit beside them or her to know that you are sincere on giving them or her the best Netflix quarantine Mother’s Day celebration coupled with her favorite snacks, and drinks.
Be The Mommy for The Day.
This has always been the most effective way of appreciating your mom or wife during Mother’s Day. Let them or her take a day off. Do all the chores and lets the mommy sit on the couch all day, sleep or rest. With how many days she have been busy taking care of you and your children during this covid crisis, this is her special day. This is advisable for those dads or husbands that doesn’t usually help in the household chores. Be the momma for the day!
Alone Time Together.
I get that this might be debatable for some, or doesn’t like the idea since the couple has been together ever since the covid. However, family time is different from a couple time. You could just celebrate the Mother’s Day with your children but it would be greater if you have included your alone time together. Believe it or not, there are couples who have been divorced or got separated because they don’t have time for each other. During this covid-19 crisis, spend all the time possible together especially if you are a workaholic husband or father. This is the time you could rekindle or explore each other’s passionate desires. This is the only time you could make it all up for your wife. But, please avoid filming it regardless of whatever purpose.
Putting the sensual way aside, there are things that you could do for that alone time together. Give her a full-body massage, read a book together, engage in a meaningful conversation together, have a great laughs about your previous Mother’s Day memories together, do your devotions together or sit with each other especially when you haven’t done this because of your busy schedule.
It’s always nice to go back to the basics. This covid 19 crisis took all of us to the whirlwind mayhem that allowed us to realize some things or meditate our lives. It may not be the usual and fancy Mother’s Day celebration, but it gives us a more emotional approach, hopeful, healthy and family get together that are memorable and priceless. Realizations that occasions like this are worth more than luxurious gifts, worth more than the countries we visited together, and more than fancy restaurants we dined together. This quarantine Mother’s Day celebration is not your usual Mother’s Day celebration, and it will change that norm from Today, onward.
At the end of the day, appreciate your moms and wives, and all the everyday sacrifices they do. Happy Quarantine Mother’s Day 2020 to all!
What have you been planning to do or Mothers Day gifts during quarantine? Share it in the comment section below.